To date or not to date: that is the question

Yes. We all are supposed to fall in love, have an illusion, find our soul mates, kiss, laugh, cry and all that. But, when things don't really work-out the way you've expected then what do you do? Cry and complain that there are no men good enough, and that the ones that are cute, successful are either married or gay? Nein! you're supposed to keep looking and wish that special person is on his way.
Well, I've been single for a while, actually, I've never dated someone for more than five months. Yes. I'm 26 years-old and I've never experience "true love". I do believe that it exists, somewhere, maybe not in Florida, but in DC or Amsterdam... somewhere far away from here.
For the past years I have been listening to my friends' failure relationships, I have witnessed how these "men" who at the beginning were all nice and sweet have become ugly and bitter. I don't think that it's all men's fault or women's, I don't think it's any one's fault; I just think that we were never taught how to love and be patient and listen and tolerate things. But, rather we were taught not to put up with b/s, not to give second chances; we were taught that best way to keep us safe it's not to play the game, but let others play it for you.
I'm not complaining and I don't want to point fingers and generalized that all Miami boys are assholes, but yes they are! They are empty, mean, careless and stupid....they are all of this and more, and women in this town are even worse!
I want my soul mate to find me.... I still believe in love.

Moving in moving out

Over the last past 17 months I moved about 12 times. And it's not because I have been evicted or something, it's because my main residence is in Boca Raton but for work reasons I moved to Miami. Now, I'm back at my mom's house and I'm sleeping in a futon, hence the name of my blog.
Moving so many times has been quiet an interesting journey, I have lived in many places (which I never thought I would lived) and I have had the opportunity to learn new things about myself like I can easily adapt to new situations and that I can wait for things to come without going insane.

When things happen, you don't know exactly why the happen but I must tell you that "things happen for a reason" if it wasn't for all these times that I moved and the few projects that I have worked for, I wouldn't have met Simon or been to Europe..... I guess things are meant to be and one must learn to take things as they come without going nuts because the job or the relationship is not manifesting immediately.

My advice to all of those who are in a similar situation as mine. Don't get discourage, you will get the things when you're ready to receive them. Don't lose your faith and please do not give up your dreams.